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]]> by: notsurewhattodo http://www.yazadjal.com/2004/12/07/married-and-watching-porn/#comment-7086 Wed, 15 Feb 2006 23:14:05 +0000 http://www.yazadjal.com/2004/12/07/married-and-watching-porn/#comment-7086 I know... then I have a problem with him lying, which means he can be capable to hide anything and make sure I never find out ...just for the sake of us staying together... I appreciate you for your response.... Thank you.. I know… then I have a problem with him lying, which means he can be capable to hide anything and make sure I never find out …just for the sake of us staying together…
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]]> by: jus http://www.yazadjal.com/2004/12/07/married-and-watching-porn/#comment-7063 Wed, 15 Feb 2006 22:27:55 +0000 http://www.yazadjal.com/2004/12/07/married-and-watching-porn/#comment-7063 Not knowing the full details of what you are talking about re what you found on his computer, it is very possible that such text did come up in circumstances beyond his control. It's also very possible that he was trolling for porn. I would suggest you have a calm reasoned chat with him...don't accuse him of anything, and explain to him exactly why you are uncomfortable with him looking at porn. Try to be open-minded about what he wants to do as well...do not attack him or judge him but listen to what he has to say. I personally find that most relationship issues come about because of poor communication and an unwillingness to listen to the other partner's point of view. As i have stated previously, neither i nor my wife have an issue with porn, but that does not mean you shouldn't of course. I don't really understand why you have an issue, but i'm not here to decide for you. If he does indeed enjoy looking at porn, then that is something you are both going to have to deal with together...it will be very difficult for you to change his behaviour...trust me, i know guys :) If however he says he is not interested but you then later discover that he is indeed, then you have a bigger problem than him looking at porn. Not knowing the full details of what you are talking about re what you found on his computer, it is very possible that such text did come up in circumstances beyond his control. It’s also very possible that he was trolling for porn.
I would suggest you have a calm reasoned chat with him…don’t accuse him of anything, and explain to him exactly why you are uncomfortable with him looking at porn. Try to be open-minded about what he wants to do as well…do not attack him or judge him but listen to what he has to say. I personally find that most relationship issues come about because of poor communication and an unwillingness to listen to the other partner’s point of view.
As i have stated previously, neither i nor my wife have an issue with porn, but that does not mean you shouldn’t of course. I don’t really understand why you have an issue, but i’m not here to decide for you.
If he does indeed enjoy looking at porn, then that is something you are both going to have to deal with together…it will be very difficult for you to change his behaviour…trust me, i know guys :)
If however he says he is not interested but you then later discover that he is indeed, then you have a bigger problem than him looking at porn.

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]]> by: notsurewhattodo http://www.yazadjal.com/2004/12/07/married-and-watching-porn/#comment-7028 Wed, 15 Feb 2006 22:01:54 +0000 http://www.yazadjal.com/2004/12/07/married-and-watching-porn/#comment-7028 I have a question? I have been married for two years now. Me and my husband do everything together, so I know he has not been cheating. Until two days ago I believed he was my best friend. Usually he does not use computer a lot, only when he reads a newspapers. But two days ago I checked the History icon on our computer, and I found some search engine on which it was written "free porn movies" I was devastated.(Broken Trust)... He knows that I am really against this and I consider it a "Big No" in our relationship. Of course, he denies it and says how it must have been there from his search for games and other "free regular" movies...?//!!hm? I think this is a big lie, a cover up... There was something suspicious about some downloaded pictures....before we got married on his home comp..he said that it was his brother who would check on those sites b/c they shared that comp.. I really did not believe, but I did not have enough accurate evidence for that neither... Well now I think I do...and I am married to him... Is this a good reason for divorce? I have a question? I have been married for two years now. Me and my husband do everything together, so I know he has not been cheating. Until two days ago I believed he was my best friend. Usually he does not use computer a lot, only when he reads a newspapers. But two days ago I checked the History icon on our computer, and I found some search engine on which it was written “free porn movies” I was devastated.(Broken Trust)… He knows that I am really against this and I consider it a “Big No” in our relationship. Of course, he denies it and says how it must have been there from his search for games and other “free regular” movies…?//!!hm? I think this is a big lie, a cover up… There was something suspicious about some downloaded pictures….before we got married on his home comp..he said that it was his brother who would check on those sites b/c they shared that comp.. I really did not believe, but I did not have enough accurate evidence for that neither… Well now I think I do…and I am married to him… Is this a good reason for divorce?

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